Life lessons to help us get over ourselves Part 2

Hope you enjoyed yesterday’s part 1 of this post, here’s part 2:

4. “If you meet someone whose soul is not aligned with yours, send them love and move along.”

Dating and relationships can be incredibly difficult, especially after our hearts have been shattered. There was one time I found myself in a place where I wanted a relationship to be something more, and the person I was dating didnโ€™t. ๐Ÿ’”

No matter where Iโ€™ve been at or where the other person was, Iโ€™ve learned not to take anything personally. Sometimes our souls just arenโ€™t in alignment with someone elseโ€™s when our paths cross, and we have no choice but to wish them well and move on. Itโ€™s been one of the harsher lessons Iโ€™ve had to learn and accept.

5. โ€œPeace is the result of training your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be.โ€

Most people going through a breakup, a divorce, the loss of a job or the death of someone close to them suffer more than they need to just because they canโ€™t accept what is. Even though it can be incredibly hard, we have to make peace where we are at because wishing something else is sabotaging the joy of the present moment, which is all we have.

6. โ€œLove is the ability and willingness to allow those you care about to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.โ€

This was a hard one for me because my ego wanted to control everything and everyone around me. I learned to let go and detach. Let other people live their own lives and mind your business. This made life more manageable. By just sending love with blessings during my meditation it allowed me to be at peace with people I most care about.

These life lessons transformed me from the broken-hearted woman I was in my young adult life into the strong, compassionate and empowered woman I believe I am today.

Sending many love vibes! ๐Ÿ’‹

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    1. IngridMadisonAve

      Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. I very much appreciate you taking the time to read and comment. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ Have a lovely day.

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  3. Dewana ๐Ÿ’“

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