Before Breezy Dating became a trend, I was semi-practicing it when I was a single gal dating in New York City.
For those of you that do not know what Breezing means, here’s a full description:
Breezing Is a dating trend that focuses on being carefree, confident within yourself, and not worrying too much about what you’re supposed to be doing and what the other person is thinking, or feeling about you.
Being authentic with yourself and your partner
If you’re looking for long-term committed love and marriage, say so! Some say not to do it on the first date, but I think it is the best time, so if he/she is into it they will stick around if not, you can keep it moving. It’s OK to breeze out before you waste too much time on something that isn’t going to work long-term.
Breezing keeps your partner wondering
Breezing can actually throw a guy off, even though it’s not your intention to play games. For instance, if he hasn’t called when he said he would, and he’s expecting you to be pissed, but you’re too breezy living your best life. Men are attracted to happy, smiling, and confident girls, so keep it going, and he will come to you. If you not, it’s contagious, so energetically you will attract someone quickly with this optimistic attitude.
It’s about living in the “Now”
When you are out with your date, don’t think about the wedding dress, or moving into his apartment. Enjoy the hugs, kisses, environment, or whatever you are doing at the moment. Living in the now keeps anxiety at bay.
It’s about not letting your negative feelings get the better of you.
If your date upsets you, you don’t invest in them and how much they hurt you. You express what you feel (if you feel like it), but you move on. You don’t sit there analyzing every word, or texts with your friends. You move on. Don’t become addicted to reliving the negative experience, over and over again. It’s not worth it.
You don’t let little things get to you.
Yes, you can be in tune with your emotions, but you also don’t make the small stuff bum you out.
Let’s say you are out with your date and they check out another person, don’t be upset, or angry, My advice is to yawn, and check out your texts, or this blog. 😜 This shows the person to get over their ego. Don’t let the players get you down.
Breezing cuts out a lot of the BS and allows you to be more comfortable in your skin without compromising yourself for dates and girlfriends/boyfriends. Think of all the fantastic things you could do with the time that would go about beating yourself up for not being the way you think you’re supposed to be.
Sending love vibes! 💋
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